Identity Quotes 
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Identity Quotes

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Cary Grant

Image: Keys on my Grandfather Reeves' Woodstock typewriter, which he used for entrepreneurial interests until the early 1960s "Everybody wants to be Cary Grant. Even I want to be Cary Grant."

— One of those great instances where timing and scale are exactly right. Grant said this after his own retirement from film, in his later years, and, appreciating that he, himself, was now among those who envied the Cary Grant iconic persona of His Girl Friday, now someone that even the man himself could no longer be.

(Can't resist adding one more layer of irony here: Do you realize that by saying this, and the way he says it, he demonstrates that he still is Cary Grant? I mean, isn't this just a classic Cary Grant line in and of itself?)

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Benjamin Franklin

"Men take more pains to mask than mend."

— My son's mother was always a great fan of Benjamin Franklin; said his visage used to ride co-pilot in her Volkswagon Beetle, advising her as she drove.

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Kurt Vonnegut, Jr., The Sirens of Titan

"'Don't truth me,' said Boaz in his thoughts, 'and I won't truth you.'"

— Perhaps the summary line of this fantastic novel. It speaks to the heart of intimacy, in that we all know the deepest truths about those to whom we are closest; it can't be otherwise. Yet (thank you), we are obligated to keep those truths to ourselves — as a favor in return for the truths they refrain from uttering about us.

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Star Trek IV: The Voyage Home, Leonard Nimoy

"You're not exactly catching us at our best," Admiral James T. Kirk (William Shatner).

"That much is certain," Captain Spock (Leonard Nimoy).

— Even if you're not a Star Trek fan, there is an epic nature to this series that makes for poetic juxtaposition to this bit of dialogue where Kirk and Spock are forced to hitchhike back to their crippled space ship in a San Francisco park in the 1980s. How many of us wouldn't like for some "real" audience to know that what we're being seen as in any given moment isn't a fair representation our real value, greatness?

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Walter Lippmann

"Many a time I have wanted to stop talking and find out what I really believed."

— A cautionary note for those predisposed to believe their own PR.

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Nora Ephron

"Insane people are always sure that they are fine. It is only the sane people who are willing to admit that they are crazy."

Same holds true in divorce court, I find.

 
 
 

 
 
 
 

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